The Professor asks, Is Sex Therapy Essential for Everyone?

Hello Dr. Gless, I am a retired Professor of Physical Sciences; I would really like to know about sex therapy. I loved teaching and I suspect that many of my colleagues and students could gain by knowing about it.  What kind of therapy is it?  Is it essential to everyone? How can we use it… Read More

The Truth About Women’s Sexual Arousal: Baby, Where’s the Fire

It’s amazing how many couples have problems with women’s sexual arousal. The man may feel he can’t get his partner turned on or the woman may feel like her libido has rolled over and died. Lack of desire for sex has many causes. But you can’t find out the source of the problem if you… Read More

How to Deal with the Relationship Problem of Desire Differences

Do you and your partner have trouble agreeing on how often to have sex? This article will show you how to work out your sexual desire differences and discover sexual enhancement. Couples who come in for sex therapy and counseling often have a difference in their desire for sex. In counseling we call this problem… Read More

Understanding Delayed Ejaculation

We all know that some women have trouble having an orgasm during intercourse, but did you know that some men have the same problem? It’s called delayed ejaculation (DE) and it’s just as hard for a man to deal with it as it is for a woman. How a couple deals with the problem depends on the… Read More

What Helps You be Mindful Into Your Senses and Brings You Joy?

Do you ever let your inner natural child out? It can be so healing and put you back into that centered happy zone that you deserve to be in. I believe that every adult has a right to be that natural child sometimes. Norman Cousins said he healed his cancer through laughter. It was his… Read More

Libido in Women: Where did My Sex Drive go?

Question Dear Dr. Gless, I am currently on birth control pills and I’m wondering if this could be the reason for my low sex drive? I’ve been on them for about 2 years and my boyfriend has noticed a drop off in our sex life ever since. This has caused a major problem for us,… Read More

How to Prevent Premature Ejaculation

Question Hi Dr. Gless, I saw your website about solving premature ejaculation. I would like to ask if it really works for men like me. I tend to ejaculate within a few minutes of intercourse. My girlfriend is unusual in that she wants me to last 20 or 30 minutes so she can climax. So… Read More

A Womans Orgasm

Question Dear M. K., I appreciate your need for anonymity. Sex is an awkward and uncomfortable subject in our society. Thank you for your frankness. I hope my notes will assists you. Answer When the literature talks about a womans orgasm it is usually referring to the orgasm in intercourse. Many women feel that the… Read More

Stop Premature Ejaculation

Question Dr. Gless –I have a premature ejaculation problem. I have been given a medication like Prozac for it in the past, however, I don’t want to take medications for this problem anymore. I climax once I penetrate very quickly. Do you think your system would really work for me? Please advise Thanks D. Answer… Read More

Woman’s Health: Falling Out of Love with Husband

Question Dear Dr. Gless, I’m a 35 year old mother from Michigan; I haven’t had good sexual desire for my husband since I had my children. We did have a fairly good sex life before I had my children. But now anytime he attempts to have sex with me it is a complete turn off… Read More